You’ve made it until this part already. Keep up the good work using dating app Tinder!
STEP FOUR: How to find out if she looks good in real life
Girls know how to look better in pictures. From hairstyling to applying good makeup and taking shots from a right angle to appear slimmer, girls know their tricks for sure. Technology also provides girls many additional ways to look better. For example, there is this new iPhone app called Pixtr and the application has been developed to make people look more beautiful in their pictures without visible signs of photoshopping.
Too hot to be true?
If you think that a girl is very hot, but there is no sign of it in the pictures, it just isn´t true! Some clear signs of this is when she doesn’t have a picture featuring her whole body, and if she poses with a cutsie face in every picture. Beware if a girl’s pictures appear to be taken by a professional photographer or (appear to) have been photoshopped. It’s best if her first picture looks just nice, and the others are more casual and she shows what she really likes instead of how she looks.
How to check her other pictures?
If you aren’t sure if a girl is as hot as she appears to be in her pictures, you should try to figure out if she has a Facebook account with public pictures. Lately, it is possible to take a screenshot of the picture in question and Google her picture by opening Google Images. Usually, if the picture is genuine, her Facebook or Instagram accounts show up. You just saved yourself a lot of time.
If you are already exchanging messages, just ask her if she feels comfortable sharing her phonenumber and chat on in whatsapp or Facebook. Don’t hesitate to ask for a girl’s Facebook name even if you are unsure if you want to meet her. She will probably be happy to see more pictures of you in social situations with your friends. If she doesn’t have anything to hide, she won’t mind. It may even make her feel that you have taken your Tinder relationship to the next level.
STEP FIVE: Time to date!
Now you know her personal interests, hobbies and where she has been on travelling trips, it’s time to date if you are still interested. Do not exchange messages for weeks, because it will cause your conversation to become stale, and eventually she’ll lose interest. The best range of getting to know eachother is between one to three days on avereage to exchange messages. Don’t wait any longer. If she doesn’t show more attention to you, the sign is simple: she is just not that into you. Some girls are just looking for some flirting but have no intention of meeting someone. They can be a huge time waster.
The most important thing here is to come across as genuine and authentic. Don’t suggest creepy things or try to get in her pants at once, after all it is still a dating app Tinder. It is best to find out where she likes to hang out and try meeting her for coffee or for drinks somewhere in a popular bar.
– Wanna meet for a drink tomorrow in the city centre?
– It’s freezing outside. You seem like a nice person to grab a cup of coffee with. What do you think?
STEP SIX: Let the magic to it’s thing
This is the part where no other website can tell you what’s in the playbook. Dating app Tinder is not a guarantee for a one night stand. Some people on Tinder are there just for sex, but most are looking for a relationship or are just checking it out for fun. If you are only down for a one-night stand, make it clear to whatever girl you’re talking to, to prevent wasting time.
Don’t expect a one night stand on a coffee-date.
You need to feel what type of person you are dating and feel the opportunities on each date. You simply can’t expect to end up in bed after a coffee date. But if you feel the chemistry on a date in a bar, and you see you’re having a good time, always remember it can be possible. Don’t push it though!
Girls will sense your intentions however. If you aren’t honest with your intentions, she will notice and your chances are over, even if she’s attracted to you. You would be surprised how often girls choose not to sleep with guys that they like because they were just looking to score.